Tag: self help

Self Sabotage is a Cop Out

Total Read Time: 6 Minutes It can feel like a moat sometimes. Filled with tears, bridge burned, and castle doors boarded shut. They say to let people in, but sometimes you’re on the outside yourself. You’re the only one who can swim across. It’s not like ruining your shoesSo you can’t run anymoreOr even ruining

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Moments of Clarity: What Do You Want?

Total Read Time: 6 Minutes I’m working on shortening the down time. It takes weeks recently, but it’s been months before. I spend so much effort and time planning: writing down ideas, plotting out their fruition, mentally wrestling my own discipline to start wanting it enough to make something happen. That’s the secret, isn’t it?

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Latest Thoughts: A Theory on Alcoholism and Self Harm

Total Read Time: 4 Minutes I like how recording artists release their work. The music of their heart and soul is poured out daily until they let go of a compilation. It is… released. Released by a few bad shifts at workMindset is productivityResponsibility and discipline highlightedBy their absence Mindset as soil Ideas as seeds.

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Why do some people Never Break Up?

Total Read Time: 5 Minutes What a lovely palindrome of a day (02 02 20 20). I was informed it was also our 33rd day of the year, with 333 days left. Allow me to geek out over numbers, moon patterns… moving onward! People are so caught up in finding someone to be with. Maybe

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“Consider THIS Before Your Next Conversation.”

Total Read Time: 5 Minutes Have you ever heard about the family that you actually got to choose for yourself? How about that you are the average of the 5 closest people to you? (Tim Ferriss quote… Seems to be a theme in my mentorship). The common denominator is your choice. It really doesn’t matter

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When to Promote Yourself to Manager

Total Read Time: 3 Minutes Short answer: right now, but it’ll take people three years to believe it. Leadership starts every day when the alarm goes off. Start by managing yourself. People naturally want self improvement. It’s called progress. We do not like to go backward. When those people see you succeeding, they will want

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Live On Purpose

Total Read Time: 6 Minutes This is one of the hardest and at the same time easiest topics for me to write about. The difficulty comes from how important it is to me, because I’m okay at failing at things I don’t care about. This is not one of those things. The ease: because it

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Andrey’s Alcohol Commandments

Total Read Time: 7 Minutes “I been here for years. It’s made me an animal. There’s rules to this. I wrote me a manual.” – Notorious B.I.G. (Not comprehensive, Very apprehensive) I’ve worked in restaurants for a decade now, specifically in restaurants that specialize in beer. I was one of the brewers and bartenders at

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How to Put On Socks Pain Free: Microwave Edition

Total Read Time: 4 Minutes LIFE HAPPENS. YOU GET FAT. What now? I’ve been there…I realized something 35lbs ago, in 2014: Feeling unhealthy sucks. I woke up while I was getting ready for work. My eyes were opened at the same time as the nerves in my back squealed, “HELP” I would have said it

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How to Find Your Passion

Total Read Time: 9 Minutes What are you doing about it? Why would you QUIT YOUR DAY JOB? Everyone wants their dream job, or wishes they even knew what to look for. If there’s one thing my 20’s taught me, it’s that your mindset behind intention defines both why you do something and subsequently, how

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